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Post by lieblingxdasxkraut on Aug 4, 2012 7:58:22 GMT -5
It seems on most of my trades I'm doing i do much more work then everyone else is
I have a blog that I have what are currently outdated forms of my master lists buryied on because there masters not everything on them is for trade
Well in trades I'll link to that blog to show my list but it seems a *lot* of people dont wanna look for the lists like it's just "too hard" and it dosent seem to phase them when I say that I have a 2" binder that's over full of tomatoes and peppers that what I have there is a *massive* amount of in total then when people do see the amount of varieties I'll bet there jaws drop to the ground
So here's how most seem to go
M- so what are you looking for? T- anything! M- blog link: there buryied and kinda outdated but my master/list is on there T- oh this or that look cool (plants) M- I am not trading that/it's just starting to flower so I dont have seeds yet/what were you looking for T-anything! Why don't you send a copy of the list? M- the list is massive (tom/pepper binder example) what are you looking for? T- anything! M- *gets pissed* is is so hard to look for the list on the blog? *pastes the list* all you have to do is expand the months till you see the words master or list is that really so hard? T- *stops replying*
That's what I call lazy I guess some think because it's my blog I know the layout and can find it easily but if they had even said a few specific things then I wouldn't mind as much because it's showing some effort on there part
But at the present I feel like nobody is answering questions like nobody cares anymore --like there all out for a quick buck or something --am I missing something here? Or? What do y'all think?
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Post by lieblingxdasxkraut on Aug 5, 2012 12:08:41 GMT -5
And another annoying thing happened I sent a pm to someone elsewhere with what I wanted of what I saw in there list asked a couple questions *and* included links to my massive lists
What did I get?
A reply answering NONE of my questions and making it sound like it was too much work to follow a link! Boy do I wanna rip out that persons throaght! I know I have issues but is it so hard to follow a link? So hard to answer questions? I love answering questions about what I have and if I don't know know what? I say that!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 5, 2012 12:57:04 GMT -5
As soon as you get your first answer of, "I don't comprehend your answer", give that gardener two choices to pick from.
An "anything" or an "anything rare", should speak to this growers naivete.
The Gardener who puts out requests of, send me something good. And you do that, and they don't even try growing them. Has in my estimation used up all my charity.
How many round robin boxes (sometimes with hundreds of packets of seed in them) are sitting in a back cupboard un-opened and un-planted?
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Post by marielouise on Aug 5, 2012 14:24:41 GMT -5
I agree with coppice here !
Lieb, Quite frankly if you feel that fustrated is it really worth your time or sanity to fool around trying to get a straight answer much less trying to please them.
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Post by lieblingxdasxkraut on Aug 5, 2012 22:00:30 GMT -5
Prolly not but I live with a narcisistic mother who I swear has the mind of a 5 year old and I mean behaviours thinks my loving soy and fake milk is such a terrible thing and ugh I could go ON!
So now someone seems to think that the stuff I have on my garden blog (that I do for fun and has all my living outdoor plants in it ATM) I'm somehow hiding something or another from it --maby the stuff at uncles house but I'm never there and I'm not as involved in that garden as I was in past years so I only know of the dead aloes there's peppers that are insane and outher stuff oh! Potatoes too lol he is growing some of them as well as tomatoes pickles zuichinni and maby some beans? And a few herbs too lol but again I'm not really that involved in that garden I have my own garden that's got corn and loofah I'm herb and veg I'm trying to get/get into fruit as much as I can while still doing containers in zone 5 which will be another challange lol as I'll need to protect the blueberries and rasberries that are in 12" clay pots (only breaks have been lol well one I was too hard on one fell off the grill and another fell off the patio table--then there's the ones we wanted to break lol) as long as the plant is safe the pot will be fine there's also the strawberries that I should have more plants and fruit from next year that needs protecting as its in about 6" wide 4" deep bowl like thing (2-tier planter) of those 1 is a junebearing 2 are everbearing from the starts I thought that would be a good way to get a good balance lol I also have the goji that 100% is coming in like the cauldron (ok that's herbs) the *rest* is mostly outdoor herbs/veg I may also protect my mint pot as well
I would love so much to get deeper into fruits there's some that my eyes are set on too like eventually I want an acai palm and a maricle fruit I think they would be such great plants to have! But ATM lol pretty much anything we *will* eat tho would be a great thing to grow I think and growing ourself? To me that makes it all the better as I know what went into it
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